Evolution of a Writer

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Writing is something I’ve been passionate about since grade school. Several summers were spent as a member of a Young Authors Club at the local library, which resulted in a published book. High school was filled with AP English classes and writing for the school newspaper. I knew initially it would be tough to earn a solid living as a writer if I pursued a journalism degree in college. While money shouldn’t have been something to sway my decision on a major, I was paying out-of-state tuition and an entry level writing gig post-college wasn’t going to help me pay off those student loans. Sallie Mae and Wells Fargo currently own me. So I went into finance. But the English classes were still my favorite and my secret power was being able to crank out 20-page papers in less than 4 hours on zero sleep.

After moving to Texas and securing a full-time job, an opportunity to write for an online publication came along. While it was awesome to make a small income on the side doing something I enjoyed, the company I was writing for wasn’t my favorite. I struggled with it for awhile but in the end decided writing for myself for free was more desirable than the money I’d make writing for someone else about content which didn’t interest me.

A week after crossing the finish line of my first half marathon I created an account on WordPress and became co-author of the blog We Run For Wine. It has been 3 1/2 years since I published my first post and it’s pretty amazing how far I’ve come since that day. My Google Reader (remember when that was still a thing?) was filled with healthy living blogs and a handful of running ones. I was under the impression I should be posting as much as possible, no matter the length or quality. Some people even posted 2, 3 times per day. Back in December while transitioning Melissa Runs (Phase 2 of Blog Life) over to So These Are My Thirties (Phase 3 – and hopefully the last), I was pretty embarrassed by the content in the early days. The quantity was clearly there, but the quality? Not so much. It took awhile to get the hang of this whole blogging thing.

Over the years the way I wrote and the blogs I read changed quite a bit. HLBs were left behind and replaced by inspiring runners, both fast and back of the pack. Race recaps and track workouts were more interesting to me than repetitive photos of overnight oats and veggie burgers. It turns out runners are more honest and transparent than any HLB I’ve ever read. A picture perfect online presence is pretty easy to maintain but let’s be honest: no one’s life is perfect. My favorite writers are the ones who hit the tough subjects, smack you in the face with a dose of reality, and speak from the heart. I want to hear about this impossible tempo run that almost broke you and how you powered through it to nail splits you didn’t think were possible.

One of my goals in 2012 was to post more consistently, but in the back half of the year I had done quite the opposite. While one might classify this as a ‘fail’ in the resolution department, I’d have to disagree. I appreciated the direction my writing was headed and embraced “writing for a reason” in 2013. An identity crisis mid-year had me yearning for a change. An overhaul of my Google Reader Feedly resulted in the addition of several lifestyle blogs and the push I needed to leave ‘Melissa Runs’ behind. I wanted to share more of my personal life and a fresh new blog was the perfect way to do it. In hindsight I wished I had done it sooner.

I’ve been awarded some pretty fantastic opportunities through this blog and not once have I wished I was still writing for the online publication with a side income. There aren’t any advertisements on STAMT and I fully intend to keep it that way. It’s not about the money for me. It’s not about the page views or the clicks, the sponsored posts or blogging for a living. It’s about the writing. It’s about the people I wouldn’t have otherwise met without this small space of mine on the internet. It’s about the doors which never would have opened – or I would have never even thought to approach – along the way.

Whether you’ve been around since the beginning, somewhere in the middle, or just happened to end up here today: thank you. Writing is incredibly important to me and I’m glad you’ve decided to come along for the ride.

What are your favorite topics to read about? What would you like to see more (or less) of on So These Are My Thirties?

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2 Comments

  1. Great post, I love STAMT and get excited each time a new post is up!!
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  2. I love this <3

    It is fun to look back on the evolution of our writing over the course of this whole blogging thing. I remember your original blog and we've pretty much been together since the beginning, huh? It's pretty cool that we've both grown so much and come so far and that we got to witness it for each other. I'm proud to know you, lady! XO

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